Singles


Hello there, this section is for single people that are still waiting for Mr/Mrs Right or are in a relationship heading towards Marriage. How are you doing today? I hope you are smiling and having the time of your life? Come on, be cheerful! I do see and hear about many Single people especially ladies that are unhappy or discontent because they are not in a relationship yet or found the right person to plan their lives with. My word for you today is Chillax! If there's any word like that!

Just yesterday, I was privileged to attend a college fellowship where the undergraduates were itching to hear and discuss about relationships especially one leading to marriage. It was a nice time indeed however, I observed the enthusiasm, quest and eagerness to be hooked up with someone. Some were in their second year, fourth year etc. Here's what's common - they were in a hurry in their mental faculty to want to experience a relationship that will lead to marriage. What could be the external factor of this action? Could it be
  1. Peer pressure
  2. Family Expectations
  3. Cultural belief
  4. Wrong Ideologies
  5. Fear of loneliness
Well the list is endless! I know as a single you can sometime feel lonely, get anxious about your marital future etc but my advice to you is to please embrace your singleness. This is time you have to work on yourself so that you'll become a WHOLE person in preparation for marriage. I don't care how long it takes you; Listen stop crying in your secret place because you're still single and you see that most of your friends are in a relationship, some are married and some even have kids. Listen, their race is not your race; so also is their destiny not your destiny. A famous proverb in my dialect says ' Don't watch other peoples clock to determine the pace at which you'll run!!! Please, please and PLEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS. So stay focused because there is a time for every thing. I hope you get what i'm saying? Please leave comments, thoughts and questions you'd like me to address on this page and i'll be glad to answer them.

I'll share several talks, videos and materials that might be of help to you in this precious journey! I'll tell you something new i just learnt yesterday:

'You have to be properly positioned in all ramifications starting from your mindset - have a sound mind! Have a right positioning so that you won't be displaced in life' - Gee Bee

 'Don't put your hand where you won't put your heart! Value your life, value your destiny! Don't let someone ruin your life!' - Bro Ope

 Wow, these words are loaded! Enjoy your day and thanks for taking your time to read this post.


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